Tapping on the Belief that Others Will Take Advantage of Your Success
In today’s video I thought I would address a common fear that comes up with clients with regards to earning more money and that is that if they make a lot of money, their friends or family will take advantage of them. Obviously this stops them in their tracks because this is a big limiting belief that will prevent them from moving forward towards their income goals.
And, quite often if someone is taken advantage of for their money or otherwise, it’s because they’ve got this belief ingrained in their psyche. So the best way to combat this belief that “others will take advantage of me” is to tap it out so that there is no emotional charge connected to this belief.
So imagine for a moment that you have buckets of money, you’re making well into the 6 figures, you’ve paid off all your debt and you’ve got the home and car of your dreams, doing what you love.
Think about how your family or friends would react and rate the intensity of your feeling around “others will take advantage of me” on a scale of 1 to 10 and we’ll see if we can bring it down a couple of notches.
So starting at the karate chop point…
Even though I have this belief that if I make a lot of money, my friends and family will take advantage of me, they’ll want a piece of me and so it’s better to not have any money at all so that I can get along with everybody, I deeply and completely accept myself.
Even though I believe I’ll be a target and my friends and family will come running with their hand out if I make a lot of money I choose to release this belief now.
Even though I have a belief that my friends and family will want an interest free loan from me if I start making a lot of money, I deeply and completely accept myself and now it’s time to let this belief go.
I have this fear that my friends and family will take advantage of me
If I make a lot of money I’ll become a target
They’ll want a piece of it
And at the root of that
Is GUILT
About making more than others
So it’s compounded into this fear that people will want some
Or maybe want a lot
That they’ll take advantage of me
And in essence
Not treat me like a normal human being any longer
But I can see how this is limiting my success
And I choose to let this go
I can’t possibly know how others will react
And maybe they will be supportive
And not want to take advantage of me
And instead maybe they will be inspired to do the same
So I’m choosing to let go of this belief
This fear
This fear that others will take advantage of me
It’s time to let it go
Because it doesn’t serve anyone to stay poor
I can help others if I want to and I make a lot of money
But I will also have that choice to say “no”
Maybe others wont take advantage of me
I choose to be open to that possibility
Maybe the result will be that others will be supportive
I choose to release this fear that others will take advantage of me
So that I can step into my power
And earn the money that I deserve
Having fun serving others
I’m choosing this new reality
Of having fund and serving others
And getting paid what I deserve
I hope you found this video helpful. You’ll probably want to tap a few times to bring down the intensity of the emotion. But just sit with that belief right now and determine if the intensity of this belief has come down on the scale of 1-10 that we did earlier. The feeling should be less intense and it should have come down a couple of points.
To Your Success!